Updated as of January 23, 2024
This Year's Adoption
*Please note that ages are at time of adoption.
This was the Bates family’s 28th year of adopting families with our family and friends and our 20th year adopting families through the Macomb Infant Preschool Program (MIPP). We decided to "completely adopt" one family this year (but of course could not help but adding a second family who needed help - see below):
November 2024 Additional Family Adopted - Hope's Family
In late November, we learned of an additional family of four: Mom/Traci, DeVaughn (age 11), Taj (age 7) and Hope (10 months old) that needed help and had not been adopted. We could not let a family go without warm coats, socks, and other assistance!
Hope Update: January 23, 2025
Hope is doing great! She is creeping on her hands and knees, pulling to stand and trying to communicate. Mom is diligent about keeping all of Hope's appointments and caring for her older sons. She is a busy, dedicated Mom.
Avalynn Update: January 23, 2025
Avalynn continues to receive services through MIPP. She is making small, steady gains in her development. Avalynn is currently focusing on her communication skills and on creeping on her hands and knees. Mom continues to await the birth of her second daughter who is due in April.
Avalynn's Family
We adopted Avalynn, (18 months), her unborn sister, Ayla/Mom (33), and Matthew/Dad (35). This year the Mom shared their journey very eloquently, so we bring you excerpts from Ayla, Avalynn's Mom herself:
"My life changed at my 33 week ultrasound when the doctor noticed that Avalynn had a case of ventriculomegaly. Which means one of her ventricles in her brain was enlarged....once she was born....she was falling behind in milestones.
At nine months we got a genetic test done and that's when we found out she had this rare metabolic condition called PDCD [*See information below]. We started doing the keto diet which is the main treatment for this condition. Once she was on the diet and in ketosis, she started doing new things.
Then shortly after she was diagnosed with infantile spasms. So we are managing that and continue with her 3:1 ratio keto diet. A diet she will be on for the rest of her life.
She is now a year and a half and thriving at her own pace. She's in all sorts of therapies and making strides daily. I can't wait to see what she accomplishes in the years to come. This is definitely not the life I expected but I know God has hand picked me to be her mama.
And now we are expecting another baby in April 2025. We definitely did not plan this because Avalynn herself is a lot. But again, God entrusted me with these blessings and we will figure this thing out called life."
Jamie had Infantile Seizures. According to Nemours KidsHealth, "Infantile spasms is a rare but serious type of epilepsy. It's associated with a unique, very abnormal brain wave pattern that can cause serious harm to a young, developing brain. This seizure type can happen during the first 2 years of life, most commonly between 5–7 months of age." The death rate for this seizure disorder has declined to five percent, but can cause catastrophic related developmental and health issues.
Dad works full-time delivering spices for a family owned company to support his family. Mom stays home full-time to take care of Avalynn who attends the Stilson Center for therapy services.
Additional Needs
We have also had several other families reach out through MIPP with larger items needs like car seats, high chairs, car seats, cribs, crib mattresses, pack and plays, learning toys, beddings, etc. We will provide these items to additional families as we are able based on our funding this year.
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